“You’re doing NaNoWriMo, right?” people keep asking me.
“Uh, no,” I reply. “Not this time. Sorry. I’ve got too much else going on right now.”
“Come on! You should do it!”
“I mean, maybe I’ll try a little bit. But, realistically, I just don’t see it happening this time.”
“Lame!” they chide me.
And I almost wonder if they’re right. NaNoWriMo (or National Novel Writing Month, for those unfamiliar) is designed to help you actually write something even in the midst of your busy schedule by setting reasonable goals for each day and having many people all writing at once to help keep each other accountable. And I know I’ve been the one on the other side of the spectrum at times, encouraging and/or pressuring my friends to be as gung ho about creative writing as I am. So what does it say about me that I’m not willing or…
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I walked away from negotiating technology contracts two weeks ago today.
I traded in those technology contracts for more time with my young sons. By the time we arrived home daily previously, I had only a few waking minutes to spend with my seven-month-old. The time I had with my five-year-old was longer but task driven–homework, dinner prep, and chores, oh my!
It’s a gift to have a little extra time with my kids for now. As I slowly search for my next paying position, I savor these precious additional minutes with my children.
Most of them, anyway.
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